Dear Anon (you know who you are),
I went onto urban dictionary to get a definition of “slut” that would match my own definition that I have. Here is what I came up with.
[A derogatory term.]
Refers to a sexually promiscuous person, usually female.
One who engages in sexual activity with a large number of persons, occasionally simultaneously.
Also refers to one who engages in sexual activity outside of a long-term relationship within the duration of said relationship.
These sexual activities include but are not limited to: passionate kissing, manual stimulation of genitalia and/or breasts in the case of a female; oral stimulation of these parts; sexual intercourse.
In some cases, used to refer to a woman who is wearing “skimpy” or tasteless clothing.
Less commonly, used as a derogatory term by one female for another during periods of conflict.
As I said in my tweet, “sluts make me cringe,” I was referring to the second and third line in the definition above. And I’d like to just take a moment to say that my tweet was directed to no one in particular, just a thought that crossed my mind, as most of my tweets are.
To address you specifically, anon, this definition doesn’t apply to me. If you know my personal business, that’s all good and dandy, but please do me the honor of having your facts straight. I have never had sex outside of a relationship. It was not on the stairs, as you said.
And really, besides all that, if you’re going to make a sly remark as you did, don’t do it anonymously.